niniesrina:

shinteya:

Kemarin ada kejadian ngga enak menimpa temen gue, Ninies. Untuk pertama kali (dan harus jadi yang terakhir!) Ninies mengalami pelecehan seksual.

Gue kemaren tuh abis pulang dari launching buku, langsung istirahat karena entah kenapa capek banget. Pas gue lagi tidur-tiduran, eh ada sms masuk…

Thanks for caring dear, hmmmm…. “jomblo sampe mati” sound sooo damn hurts in this moment oh :P

Srsly, please read this everyone.

Buat yg mikir “ya toh lo ga kehilangan apa-apa klo dipegang-pegang”. Here’s what I lose: my fucking dignity. Gak enak tau diperlakukan seolah-olah gw objek buat mainan yang ga punya perasaan. And yeah when people pass by me and grab my ass then walk away, they make me feel like a piece of meat. That sucks even more because I shouldn’t feel that way, it’s those jerkbags who are the lowlifes, not me. Yet it makes me feel that way.

THAT’S the scar you leave when you sexually harass someone. That feeling of anger and annoyance all stirred into one.

Also, no. Don’t fucking blame us for what we wear, where we go out, when we go out. NOBODY ASKS TO BE HARASSED. Just like how nobody ever asks to be mugged.